Developing or generating new concept of the self is first step of making changes.
Interestingly we so used and attached to old concept of the self in a way,
we might not think or believe that we can develop or generate new concept of the self.
we attached to old concept no matter of possible negativity.
Unfortunately concept of the self most often related with our social functions.
However internal concept of self is main point that effects individual.
Razi Ghaemmagham Farahani