through media, governments and so on yet, we are
uninformed about children’s rights from war torn
countries to the calm west society then questions
come in mind, how come?
This days we are witnessing parent or parents
emotional or physical aggression towards own kid(s).
This is very unfortunate and it is dark side of our society
that leads defenseless child or children being expose
to such harm with no protection at all from anyone
at the time of events.
What can we do? How can we define safety of
How can we realize that such harmful event (s )
are about taking place?
In my mind the elements leads to such horrible
event or events are predictable by constant
contact and observation through the family dynamic.
In my mind what we could and might be beneficial
to look for sign of such aggression in the first place are:
Family economy, Addiction in family, divorce and
anger related to divorce, custody issues, court case
in related to custody of child or children, mental illness
such as depression and list go on, trauma
(personal or family, recent or old ), incurable illness,
physical disabilities and some more that I might not have in
my mind at this point.
Indeed such horrible event or events are predictable
and preventable as if we could overcome legality
concerning parent or parents privacy within law then
we could save child or children from being harm by
own parent or parents.
Children until age 12 or more act, behave
and understand their daily communication
and life in general through their perception.
How they perceive the matter will determined
their act and behaviour. However we got to
remember that perception is not part of
their mental operation as far I concern as
result memory and images also could not be
part of mental operation.
Mental operation requires concept of reversibility